Who are you within your doing?

When you are doing stuff, who are you?

I had a recent client session where the person had a great ah-hah around their beingness whilst at work – you know those ah-hahs where you basically fall off your chair in amazement. Yes they contributed. Yes they were a key part of the team. Yes they were an expert in their field. And yes they were obviously contributing to the bottom line of the company.

The ah-hah came around their beingness. Inside, they were energetically over it – sending out passive aggressive energy, a sense of entitlement, no appreciation, a bit of a martyr, and not much fun to be around. In other words, not even they themselves wanted to hang around them!

Think of kids begging to join in and learn how to cook, as apposed to someone in the kitchen there out of obligation, really not enjoying what they are doing. Big difference right.

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On a personal note – I realized I had a ‘perfect Christmas‘ picture in my head and wasn’t really excited by Christmas coming this year as the reality I perceived and the wish of what I wanted it to be were currently very different.

I caught myself speaking on the phone to someone with a ‘I’ll just get through it’ attitude.

Nope, thanks. CHANGE!! I don’t want to just ‘get through it’. The beingness state I want to be is to have fun connecting with my loved ones, to play games, be silly, smell the tree, share prezzies, sing a ridiculous number of Christmas Carols, have a holiday and be like a kid at Christmas. Look forward to sharing how it went after the festive season 🙂 Send me a sign if you are keen for an awesome coach to coach you around beingness – as that’s when the payrise flows, balance gets better and everything just feels good. I’d wanna hang around that person…